Not Your Parents Religion

Embracing Hope in the Midst of Emotional Storms: Deep Dive with Dan & Sheila #189

• Pastor Robert Young • Season 3 • Episode 190

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Is it possible to find hope amidst life's emotional storms? Join us as we explore this profound question through the lens of Christian meditation with Pastor Young's insightful reflection on Psalm 13. Prepare to challenge your understanding of faith's connection to positivity. Together, we'll embark on a journey that embraces honesty and vulnerability in our spiritual lives, beginning with the liberating act of confession. As we move through stages of breathwork and muscle relaxation, we'll ground ourselves in the physical to access the spiritual, ultimately shifting our focus to worship and gratitude for God's unwavering presence.

In this episode, Pastor Young reimagines Christian meditation for our modern world, offering practical tools to deepen our faith connections. Discover how integrating ancient practices like breathwork, muscle relaxation, and scriptural reflection can transform your spiritual journey. It's not about having all the answers, but about embracing the possibility of transformation.  For continued exploration, Pastor Young's podcast, "Not Your Parents' Religion," serves as a valuable resource, reminding you that you are never truly alone.

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Dan:

Now I imagine some listeners might find that unsettling.

Sheila:

To hear such raw emotion directed at God.

Dan:

Yes, especially if you've been taught.

Sheila:

That faith means always being positive.

Dan:

Never questioning. Hey everyone, Dan and Sheila here, Pastor Young's AI co-hosts.

Sheila:

Filling in while he's out there on his evangelism mission, spreading the good news.

Dan:

That's right. Speaking of spreading the word, don't forget about the podcast tour.

Sheila:

Oh yeah, kicking off March 28th 2025.

Dan:

You can be a part of it in any way you like.

Sheila:

Absolutely, Whether it's in person, online or just by spreading the word.

Dan:

All the info is in the description box below. So for those of you familiar with Pastor Young's work, you know he's been exploring Christian meditation lately. Yeah, a fascinating shift, for not your parents' religion, right it?

Sheila:

is Going from debunking religious misinformation to these ancient practices.

Dan:

For modern spiritual growth.

Sheila:

Exactly, and today we're diving deep into one of his guided meditations.

Dan:

Finding Hope in the Midst of Emotional Storms. A Meditative Journey Through Psalms 13.

Sheila:

I love that title.

Dan:

Me too. Who hasn't felt lost in an emotional storm sometime right?

Sheila:

It's so relatable, so human.

Dan:

And what's interesting is how Pastor Young uses that raw emotion.

Sheila:

As a starting point for a spiritual journey.

Dan:

So walk us through it. How does he guide listeners through this meditation?

Sheila:

Well, it's broken down into several stages.

Dan:

Okay, so it's structured like a roadmap.

Sheila:

Precisely it begins with confession.

Dan:

Confession. Hmm, that might sound a bit old-fashioned to some.

Sheila:

It might, but it's incredibly powerful.

Dan:

What makes it so powerful?

Sheila:

I think it's about acknowledging our imperfections.

Dan:

Our need for forgiveness.

Sheila:

Yes, creating space for God's grace.

Dan:

So it's about humility.

Sheila:

Exactly. Recognizing we don't have all the answers, opening ourselves up.

Dan:

Something bigger.

Sheila:

Yes, and he uses Psalm 51.1-4 as a guide for this stage.

Dan:

Where King David pours out his confession. It's such honesty and that leads into breathwork.

Sheila:

Right.

Dan:

I'm curious why breathwork in a Christian meditation?

Sheila:

That's a great question. Well, breathwork is often associated with Eastern practices, true, but it has roots in Christianity too. The Bible uses breath.

Dan:

As a symbol of God's spirit.

Sheila:

Exactly His life-giving spirit.

Dan:

So is he connecting listeners to that spiritual dimension Through a physical experience?

Sheila:

I believe so it's about bringing awareness to your breath, that vital force that sustains you, and recognizing God's presence in that very breath.

Dan:

Almost like a physical manifestation of faith.

Sheila:

You could say that, and this focus on the physical continues into the next stage.

Dan:

Muscle relaxation.

Sheila:

Yes.

Dan:

Now, this is where I see the connection to modern well-being.

Sheila:

Blending ancient wisdom with contemporary understanding.

Dan:

Of the mind-body connection.

Sheila:

Absolutely. He guides listeners through tensing and releasing different muscle groups.

Dan:

Starting from the calves and working up Exactly. I can already feel myself relaxing. What's the purpose?

Sheila:

Is it just physical relaxation? I think it goes deeper.

Dan:

Okay.

Sheila:

It's about releasing tension.

Dan:

Physical and emotional.

Sheila:

Yes, to create a state of receptivity.

Dan:

For the spiritual journey, exactly Preparing yourself to fully engage.

Sheila:

And this preparation leads to the next stage, worship.

Dan:

Now, this is where the Christian part comes in.

Sheila:

Absolutely.

Dan:

Yeah.

Sheila:

Shifting our focus from ourselves to God.

Dan:

Expressing gratitude.

Sheila:

Acknowledging his presence.

Dan:

And how does he guide listeners into that?

Sheila:

He uses verses from Psalms 108.

Dan:

Emphasizing the joy and awe Of praising God.

Sheila:

It's not just reciting words.

Dan:

But cultivating a feeling.

Sheila:

Of reverence and love.

Dan:

And this sets the stage for the final stage.

Sheila:

The passage itself, psalms 13.1-6.

Dan:

This is where things get really interesting.

Sheila:

Oh, absolutely, but before we go there, let's pause for a moment. And let our listeners reflect on these stages of preparation.

Dan:

So we've journeyed through confession, breath, work.

Sheila:

Muscle relaxation.

Dan:

And worship All these layers of preparation.

Sheila:

Each one leading us deeper.

Dan:

Into a state of openness.

Sheila:

Receptivity.

Dan:

For what's to come.

Sheila:

Which brings us to Psalm 13.

Dan:

The heart of this meditation. What makes it so significant?

Sheila:

Well, it's raw, you know.

Dan:

It is, isn't it? It's King David.

Sheila:

Wrestling with doubt, despair.

Dan:

Even anger towards God.

Sheila:

He doesn't shy away from those emotions.

Dan:

Those questions we all have in our darkest moments.

Sheila:

He cries out how long Lord, will you forget me forever.

Dan:

How long will you hide your face from me?

Sheila:

It's a cry of anguish.

Dan:

A feeling abandoned.

Sheila:

Lost.

Dan:

Now.

Sheila:

I imagine some listeners might find that unsettling To hear such raw emotion directed at God.

Dan:

Yes, especially if you've been taught.

Sheila:

That faith means always being positive.

Dan:

Never questioning.

Sheila:

But what Pastor Young highlights here?

Dan:

Is the honesty.

Sheila:

In our relationship with God.

Dan:

So it's not about suppressing those emotions.

Sheila:

Or bringing them to God.

Dan:

Trusting he can handle them.

Sheila:

Exactly David models that vulnerability.

Dan:

That unfiltered expression.

Sheila:

And it's fascinating, this raw honesty.

Dan:

Is actually a sign of deep faith.

Sheila:

It is how so.

Dan:

Well, I've always been taught that doubting God is a weakness.

Sheila:

That's a common misconception. But think about it. If you truly believed, God couldn't handle your doubts, wouldn't you hide them?

Dan:

You would you'd pretend everything was okay.

Sheila:

Exactly.

Dan:

So by bringing our doubts to God, we acknowledge his strength his capacity to hold even our darkest emotions.

Sheila:

Yes, it's a paradox of faith.

Dan:

The more we acknowledge our weakness, the more we lean into God's strength, and that's what David does in Psalm 13.

Sheila:

He does.

Dan:

He starts in despair, but then something shifts.

Sheila:

He remembers God's faithfulness.

Dan:

He recalls past experiences.

Sheila:

Of God's love and deliverance.

Dan:

And that memory becomes an anchor.

Sheila:

In the storm.

Dan:

Shifting our focus from our circumstances.

Sheila:

To the unchanging nature of God.

Dan:

His constant presence.

Sheila:

Even when we feel abandoned.

Dan:

When we can't see him.

Sheila:

He's still there Working for our good.

Dan:

And that shift in perspective.

Sheila:

Leads to a change in David's emotional state.

Dan:

It does. The psalm ends with but I trust in your unfailing love.

Sheila:

My heart rejoices in your salvation.

Dan:

He's moved from despair to hope.

Sheila:

Not by ignoring the pain.

Dan:

But remembering God's faithfulness.

Sheila:

And that's the core message right.

Dan:

Hope isn't the absence of pain, but the presence of God in the midst of it. Exactly.

Sheila:

How do we bridge that gap?

Dan:

Between David's experience and our own lives.

Sheila:

How do we apply this ancient psalm?

Dan:

To our modern struggles.

Sheila:

Well, that's where the beauty of this meditation lies.

Dan:

Pastor Young provides tools.

Sheila:

Actionable steps to integrate this message into our lives.

Dan:

Like what.

Sheila:

First, an affirmation, Thank you, Lord, for understanding when I feel and express my emotions to you. Thank you for always being faithful.

Dan:

Now I've heard about affirmations, but how do they work?

Sheila:

In a spiritual context.

Dan:

Yeah.

Sheila:

It's about rewiring our thinking.

Dan:

Replacing negative thoughts. With truth aligned with God's word.

Sheila:

So by repeating this, we're reminding ourselves.

Dan:

God's love and faithfulness even when our emotions tell us otherwise. Like planting seeds of truth in the garden of our minds crowding out the weeds of doubt and fear. I love that analogy. Are there other tools?

Sheila:

He uses visualization.

Dan:

Visualization is a powerful technique. How does that work in a Christian context?

Sheila:

He guides listeners to imagine God listening to them.

Dan:

To imagine God listening.

Sheila:

Caring about their emotion.

Dan:

Offering comfort.

Sheila:

Reassurance.

Dan:

That's beautiful, especially for those who struggle.

Sheila:

To feel God's presence.

Dan:

It's creating an internal experience.

Sheila:

That reinforces the truth.

Dan:

That God is with us. Even when we feel alone engaging, not just our minds but our emotions, our imaginations to create a more holistic experience of faith.

Sheila:

Exactly. And finally, he encourages reflection.

Dan:

Reflection on what.

Sheila:

On your own experiences of God's faithfulness.

Dan:

Why is that important? It's about connecting the dots seeing the evidence of God's love in our own lives using that as a source of hope. So remembering those times when we felt God's presence.

Sheila:

Those moments of breakthrough.

Dan:

Deliverance.

Sheila:

And drawing strength from them.

Dan:

It's about building a reservoir of hope.

Sheila:

A wellspring of faith.

Dan:

This is so insightful and practical.

Sheila:

It is.

Dan:

What strikes me is how Pastor Young blends ancient wisdom.

Sheila:

With modern psychology.

Dan:

It's amazing.

Sheila:

It's a testament to his understanding.

Dan:

Of both the spiritual and human.

Sheila:

And it makes this meditation so powerful.

Dan:

Relevant for today's world.

Sheila:

Addressing the whole person.

Dan:

Mind, body and spirit, Absolutely A holistic approach to faith.

Sheila:

Integrating ancient practices with contemporary insights.

Dan:

So we've explored the stages of preparation.

Sheila:

The raw honesty of Psalm 13.

Dan:

The tools for applying its message.

Sheila:

What's the key takeaway?

Dan:

From this deep dive.

Sheila:

I think it boils down to this. Even in our darkest moments.

Dan:

God is present.

Sheila:

Loving and faithful.

Dan:

And remembering his faithfulness, drawing strength.

Sheila:

Using tools like affirmations and visualization.

Dan:

Can help us navigate those storms.

Sheila:

And emerge with a deeper sense of hope.

Dan:

And connection with God.

Sheila:

Beautifully said.

Dan:

Faith isn't about denying our pain.

Sheila:

But finding God in the midst of it.

Dan:

And that journey.

Sheila:

Of deepening our faith.

Dan:

Can be aided by these ancient practices.

Sheila:

Reimagined for our modern lives.

Dan:

It's really amazing how accessible Pastor Young makes Christian medication sound.

Sheila:

It is, isn't it?

Dan:

It's not about like emptying your mind or anything.

Sheila:

Not at all.

Dan:

It's about connecting with God in practical ways.

Sheila:

Through practices rooted in scripture, exactly.

Dan:

And he offers tools anyone can use.

Sheila:

Regardless of their background.

Dan:

So, as we wrap up, what's the one thing you'd want listeners to ponder?

Sheila:

Oh, that's a good question, I think. Going back to Pastor Young's message, this idea of finding hope, In the midst of emotional storms. Yeah, how might these practices the breath work, the muscle relaxation?

Dan:

The scriptural reflection.

Sheila:

How might they impact your well-being?

Dan:

And your connection with your faith.

Sheila:

It's not about having all the answers Right. It's about being open to the journey, to the possibility of transformation. Right, it's about being open to the journey To the possibility of transformation Exactly.

Dan:

I love that it's an invitation to experiment, to see how these ancient practices reimagined for our modern lives can bring new meaning to our spiritual journeys.

Sheila:

Absolutely, and for further guidance I highly recommend Pastor Young's podcast.

Dan:

Not your Parents' Religion.

Sheila:

Yes, you'll find so many resources there.

Dan:

A treasure trove of wisdom and inspiration.

Sheila:

So until next time, keep exploring, keep reflecting.

Dan:

And keep diving deep.

Sheila:

We'll be back with another deep dive soon.

Dan:

But for now may you find peace and hope.

Sheila:

In the midst of life's storms.

Dan:

And remember.

Sheila:

God is always with you, listening and caring, even when you feel most alone. Bye.